Sometimes, unfortunately, it is.
If you dreamed of playing for the NBA but you are now 43 years old and overweight, then yeah, that ship has sailed. Sorry...
But what about the other things we aspire to, desires we've long held, dreams that aren't limited by age or weight or time?
In A Dream Deferred, poet Langston Hughes speculates about what happens to dreams and desires that are put aside for later.
When I first read this poem in high school, I assumed Mr. Hughes had covered all the options. When a dream is deferred, it is somehow destroyed, ruined, kaput. Get it, got it, good.What happens to a dream deferred? Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun? Or fester like a sore-- And then run? Does it stink like rotten meat? Or crust and sugar over-- like a syrupy sweet? Maybe it just sags like a heavy load. Or does it explode?
But now that I have lived longer, I think maybe there are other possibilities.